Literally, she is a dancing queen because she was awarded "
Queen" in her division at a solo dance competition last weekend!
One year ago I would have never believed that she would be doing anything else but dancing. But with our encouragement (for years actually) she decided to be open-minded about other activities besides dance. We just wanted her to try some other things too. If she liked dance best, great! But if she didn't, then it would be saving us loads of time running her back and forth to dance 3-4 times/week, and loads of money. She danced on a company team last year and had a great experience. But it was a big time commitment and she had to sacrifice stuff like playing with friends and doing other activities.
Last Spring she auditioned for company for 2011-2012 and not only made it, but moved up a level! And then it was decision time. BS and I left it up to her but told her she had to be 100% sure if she was going to do company again. She wasn't. So she chose not to do company and try out some other stuff. It was a really hard decision for her and for me. Here she was, finally doing something else, and I found myself feeling sad. But I didn't tell her that.
So, she had a nice summer break from dance and last Fall she had a go at lacrosse and absolutely loved it! And she discovered that she CAN be good at sports despite her size. For the past several years she has been hesitant to get involved with team sports because she knows she is small (like the 2nd shortest in her grade).
She still loves dance so we decided she could take some open dance classes 1 day/week and also do a solo to try to keep up her skills and technique. She asked one of her favorite dance teachers to choreograph her a dance. In the past she had done a duet, but this would be her first solo. Her teacher was happy to do it and taught her a beautiful lyrical number.
By the time the holidays were over, I was exhausted from Christmas and knew I had 4 birthday parties to plan - but I was looking forward to dance competition season. We have gone into this thing with the attitude of just having fun while doing her best and getting the experience of being on stage alone. We were actually pretty casual about the whole thing including the costume. I was stressing about the costume at first, but in the end we were running out of time and I let her pick it out and it was cheap. I'm very proud of myself for not trying to control that. I left it up to her. I try not to be a "dance Mom" if you know what I mean :)
Anyway, she had her first comp the beginning of February. She was so nervous! But she did great and I remember fighting tears as I watched her for the 1st time in the spotlight. She won 3rd place in her division and we were thrilled!
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Right before going on stage for her very first time alone |
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"Shut Up and Dance" comp by Odyssey Dance Theatre |
Her second competition was last weekend...where she won! She was awarded a crown and a RIDICULOUSLY HUGE trophy, like the biggest we've ever seen!
The thing is 6 feet tall! We barely fit it into the VW for the ride home. The look on her face was priceless when she realized she had won. She couldn't stop smiling and we couldn't stop laughing at how incredible it was.

Because she is 12 now, she was in the teen division and she was so small compared to her fellow dancers.We couldn't be more proud of her and her ability to pull it together under pressure.
BS says she is "clutch." What a confidence builder!

He and I were a little bit bugged that she won because we were hoping she would learn her lesson about hard work and practice. I had been pestering and pleading with her to practice her dance in the weeks leading up to the competition. She has a bad habit of putting things off..."Okay I will do it later," or "yeah I will do it in a minute." Well it was down to the wire and she was cramming it in, in the days before. She hadn't really practiced it since her last competition that was over a month ago. I went into it feeling like she could do a lot better.
But, she got on that stage and she danced her heart out, and she was a beautiful dancer. I've mentioned before about her stage presence and that night it won the judges over :)
Good job, your Highness.
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Quincy's reaction when she saw Mills awarded the trophy and crown
PS: For her hair, Millie wanted to rock the diagonal braid that Katniss wears in "The Hunger Games :)
She is at that movie for her friend's birthday party tonight |